✨The Sovereign King is Clear in his Boundaries, Needs and Desires✨

One of the biggest issues I see in men who first start working with me is they don’t believe they can have what they want in s e x and love.

Their sense of worthiness may be low due to past trauma, and unhealthy relationship dynamics.

They’ve been emotional ally enmeshed with their mother, always trying to please others, meet others needs, and show up and be strong for others.

But no one is being strong or supportive for them.

The King archetype is not about endlessly giving and providing.

No one Man can provide for the whole family or village without it taking a serious toll on his body, heart and psyche.

Once a man has built up his own sense of inner worthiness, he realizes he can set healthy boundaries and survive, and it’s his pathway to truly thriving.

Sure some relationships may fall away, change or shift around you when you start to say No.

Setting healthy boundaries means you have self respect and others have respect for you even if it’s hard for them to adjust.

From here you can request your true needs and desires to be met.

Do you need more space, or more intimacy? Do you need to feel met, seen, and appreciated? Do you need your partner to listen to your hearts integrity and emotions?

Whatever your deep desire is, know it truly can be met. It might take you shifting your relationship dynamic. Or ending a relationship.

But when a man knows his worth at his sovereign core, he can no longer self sacrifice for the sake of others comforts.

He doesn’t sacrifice his values and needs for others comfort.

He takes a brave stand for his inner value, and the universe and surroundings start to meet him in his value.

And … he’s totally ok being alone in this transition.

To be in the fire 🔥 of the unknown.

He burns ever more brightly when he fully says YES to his own core Essence.

And … simultaneously this actually makes him wildly attractive to the right people.

How has healthy boundary setting changed your relationships?

Are you ready for this type of transformation?